PhoneBoy Rants About: Virtual Communities

The subject of virtual communities is something that is very near and dear to my heart. Aside from coming of age in the heydey of BBSes and 1200 baud modems, I have made some very close friends as a result of being involved and active in virtual communities, including becoming a part of RadioNet and meeting my fiancee. Virtual communities are cool, but they require a lot of work and dedication to make them happen, sort of like real communities.

This week I'm gonna share the experience that started it all for me. Back when I first had my own computer and modem in 1987, I called local BBSes. BBSes, in those days, were programs that people ran on a PC or two at their house that answered the phone and allowed people with modems to "connect in," leave messages for each other, and exchange computer programs. BBSes with more than one line often allowed people to get on and chat, in real time, with one another. The BBSes weren't connected to each other in any way.

I remember, my first night with a computer and modem. I was up until 2am (on a school night!) discovering just what was out there. And the first BBS I called was "The Temple of Zuul," which a friend of mine had introduced me to. This system allowed people to "talk" to each other by allowing people to leave messages for each other in public and private areas. The public area was a "message tree." At the top level was some main areas of discussion. You went down one of the branches and, like a tree, you found several "sub-brances" related to that topic. Once you got pass a few layers of organization, you got into the main discussions themselves.

The tree-like organization allowed for very free-form discussions to take place. It allowed for an almost "on the fly" creation of topic areas and discussions because while the structure was put into place by the tree, anyone could create a new topic area and generate discussion very easily. Each message under the very first message had a "parent" and a potential for "siblings" and "children." In an efficient manner, you could see which messages were related to which. You could easily traverse an entire discussion as well as traverse the message system in a linear fashion to catch all the "new" postings.

The things we talked about on Temple of Zuul were varied. Politics, computer stuff, and role-playing games were the topics I remember. I even got to run my own role-playing games on Zuul and had my own section of the tree to manage. But it was the participation of people and the dedication of the person who operated the BBS that made it a community. No graphics. No real-time interactivity. Just people exchanging ideas.

Meeting online friends in Real Life

I attended a wedding of some people I had never met before. Well, okay, that's not entirely true as I had met them on the Internet. But this is the first time I had met them in person. So my girlfriend and I drove up to Sacramento to attend this wedding. The wedding was a typical, fancy, expensive church wedding. After the ceremony, we were trying to find our "friends." The groom, whom we knew from online, looked completely different than in the pictures of him we saw on his web page, though we could tell who it was by mannerisms and dress. Another one of our "online friends" was one of the groomsmen. Another was a simple attendee, just like my girlfriend and I, whom came walking towards us while we were standing on the frindges of the crowd looking for people we knew. My girlfriend was like "Who's that coming towards us?" Turned out to be one of our friends from online, whom I had seen a picture of before and she came towards us because she recognized us from pictures on our web pages. It was a "nice, happy" reunion of sorts. Then we got over to see the groom and give him a bad time before he was whisked away to the reception in a limo.
 
Here's a picture from the wedding reception. From left to right:
Sondance the Clown, Lady Thumper (Ruth Ann), Plink (Ed),
Jane (Harmony), yours truly, and Magenta (my fiancee)
Anyway, the reception was a blast. The only "hard" thing about it was getting everyone together for the picture (above) and explaining to the non-geeks how we could all meet and interact online. From personal experience, I can tell you that meeting people from online in real life is just like meeting people any other conventional way. You have to take the same precautions and such as you do in real life. The people can be just as nice. Or just as weird. Or both! Turns out that Ruth Ann doesn't live too far away from my girlfriend and I and we have scheduled a future dinner date.

On another occasion, a friend of mine from Canada (whom I had met online) made her way down to visit us. Actually, she first met us on our vacation to Las Vegas before coming back with us to California for a visit. The dynamics of that were interesting. Her biggest surprise was that I was more outgoing than I appeared online. The big reason for that -- I tend to do a lot of different things while I am online because the communication isn't always immediate. If I'm working on something else and trying to have conversations on IRC, I tend to miss things that happen in IRC. So I say a lot less online sometimes than I do if you're in front of me. ;-) All in all, it was a good trip.


Last Update: 26 July 1997
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